How do you handle the relationship between you and your ex-es?

well, can you two be friends? I am not talking about Hi-and-goodbye friend, but real friends. Still be able to share the ups and downs in your life?

Or you avoid meeting him / her at all? But what if he / she juz by accidents pop up in your life again without any warning?

Long time ago, I was told that if you two can be friends, there's no need to break up. If you two can't be friends, what's the point of making those calls?

I guess if the break-up is too traumatic, nobody would like to contact each other. After all, keeping in touch is juz a phrase, nobody really wants to be touched by an ex.

And if one side starts to haunt around, the other side might as well doubt what his / her intention is of so doing. A break-up is a break-up is a break-up. Nobody can change the fact, regardless of who initiating it right?

I don't know. Maybe breaking up for long, this line already makes all of us be qualified as old friends. And we should hug and cry together after several units of alcohol.

But how about those not-breaking-up-for-long type? Is it necessary to do all those sensitive little things?

Please consider others' feelings when you are juz being emotional. This is a warning.

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